What’s in a name?
Throughout her life George Eliot was known by number a names. Some were nicknames or variants of her birth name. Others reflected her relationship status or were chosen specially by her.
Mary Anne Evans
This is the name she was given at birth on 22 November 1819.
This was a common nickname for Mary. Polly was probably used from Eliot’s childhood.
Mary Ann Evans
She dropped the ‘e’ from Anne in 1837 when she signed the register at her older sister Chrissey’s wedding.
The language of flowers became popular in Victorian England as it could discretely imply meaning or intention. Clematis means ‘mental beauty’ and was used by Eliot in correspondence with her former teacher, Maria Lewis, and school friend Martha Jackson.
This was applied to Eliot from about 1842. It is a play on the nickname Polly and Apollyon, a biblical monster. It was given by Eliot’s new friend Sara Hennell.
In 1843 Eliot visited her friend’s father, Dr Brabant, who gave her this nickname. He
chose it because it means ‘second’ and sounds like ‘daughter’.
When Eliot lodged with the Durade family in Geneva between 1849 and 1850 this was the nickname they gave her.
Eliot was still known as Mary Ann Evans when she moved to London in 1851. Her new acquaintances there started calling her by the more fashionable Marian.
Mrs Marian Lewes
In 1854 Eliot moved in with her partner, George Henry Lewes. They were unable to marry, as Lewes was already married, but they considered themselves to be husband and wife.
In 1857 Eliot chose her pen name reportedly because ‘George was Mr Lewes’s
Christian name, and Eliot was a good mouth-filling, easily-pronounced word’. Although this is her most famous name nobody addressed her personally by it.
In 1859 Lewes’s sons were told about his relationship with Eliot. In their letters to her they address her as ‘Dear Mother’ or in German, ‘Mutter’. In 1872, George Eliot fan Elma Stuart started writing to her, also addressing her as ‘Mother’.
Mary Ann Evans Lewes
After Lewes’s death in 1878 Eliot changed her name by deed poll.
Mrs Mary Ann Cross
On 6 May 1880 Eliot married John Cross. They remained together until her death on 22 December 1880.